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Orain gutxi lagun batekin solasean nenbilela axolagabe esan nion ez dudala ama izaterik aurreikusten. Etorkizun hurbilean esperatzekoa zen, baina luzera begira ere antzeko asmoak nituela gaineratu nionean, bekozkoa nola zimurtzen eta txikitzen zitzaion nabaritu nuen, nire kaltetan.<\/p>\n

Jakinekoa zen atoan zer zetorren. Kolpea handik eta kolpea hemendik. Fokuen argitan polizia-etxean egin ohi diren itaunketa gogorren tankeran hasi zitzaidan laguna elkar lotutako hitz jario etengabean. Berriro ere hantxe nengoen, sokaren aurka aurkitzen den boxeolariaren gisara ama ez izateko \u201custez\u201d dudan eskubidea aldarrikatzen.<\/p>\n

Batek\u00a0 daki etorkizunean ama izatea desioko dudan hala ez. Ez da bereziki gaurdaino gehiegi hausnartu dudan kontua. Baina inguruko batzuen superamatasunetik aldendu nahian, azken aldian sartu zait antiamatasun (Beatriz Gimeno aktibista feministari entzundakoa kontzeptua) tankerako sentimendu bat.<\/p>\n

Ez gaizki hartu, ez daukat ezer ama izatearen aurka. Eta nire lagunaren defentsan esango dut miresten dudala bere ziurtasuna: \u201cNi ama izango naiz\u201d. Ausartzen da pausua hemendik zenbat denborara emango duen zehaztera ere: segurtasuna duenean. Batek daki ekonomikoaz, emozionalaz, sexualaz edo zein motatakoaz ari den.<\/p>\n

Ni ez naiz gai sentitzen segurtasun horitako bakarren bat inoiz lortuko dudan baieztatzera, unean denetan egiten dut kale. Dena den, inoiz ama izatea erabakitzen badut galdetuko diot lagunari nola egin duen aurreikusitako segurtasunak hain denbora gutxian lortzeko (beno, eta agian ama izan nahi ez badut ere bai).<\/p>\n

Dena den, segurtasun ekonomikoa gaur egunean eta nire prespektibatik begitanduta nahiko zaila dela deritzot, emozionalari dagokionean ez nago ziur halakorik baden, eta beraz, sexuala lortzea litzake momentuan lagunari gomendatuko niokeen bakarra. Noski, azken hau erreproduzitzeko helburik gabe, oraino behintzat.<\/p>\n

Funtsean esan nahi nuena zen (ea lortzen dudan ahalik manera onenekin esatea) nazkatu naizela ama izan nahi ez dudala (edo beharrik ez dudala) esaten dudan bakoitzeko ringera igo beharraz.<\/p>\n

Barkamenak lagun(ei)ari.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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