{"id":594,"date":"2015-09-04T13:06:52","date_gmt":"2015-09-04T11:06:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.argia.eus\/blogak\/malen-aldalur\/?p=594"},"modified":"2015-09-04T13:06:52","modified_gmt":"2015-09-04T11:06:52","slug":"resaka-afektibo-sozialarek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogak.argia.eus\/malen-aldalur\/2015\/09\/04\/resaka-afektibo-sozialarek\/","title":{"rendered":"Resaka afektibo-sozialak"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ariketa bat proposatzen dizuet. Erreparatu sortu dituzuen harremanei; sozialei, afektiboei, sexualei. Ikusi nola eraiki dituzuen eta nola eraikitzen dituzten zuen inguruan. Guztietatik, zenbat dira nahita eraikitakoak eta zenbat inertziaz sortuak? eta inertziaz mantenduak?<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Harremanak ez dira inoiz eskala horizontaletan neurtzen. Batzuk bestearen gainetik gailentzen dira. Historikoki odolezkoei eman zaie lehentasuna, zilegitasuna. Maiz, maitasun harremanak gailentzen dira, kasu batzuetan esklusiboki. Ados, agian ezinezko da harreman guztiak maila berean jartzea, baina geuk aukeratu behar genuke zein harreman mota lehenetsi.<\/p>\n<p>Nik egin dut ariketa, eta nagusiki hiru mota aurkitu ditut: odolezkoak, ordu txikitakoak eta (in)definituak.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Odolezkoak. <\/strong>Gure gizarteak \u201cbiologikotzat\u201d dituenak dira. Ez naiz familiaz bakarrik ari; pixoihalak kendu zizkidatenetik ondoan izan ditudanez ari naiz (modu ia automatikoan).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ordu txikitakoak.<\/strong> Sexuz eta alkoholez zipriztindutakoak. Lotsagabeki eraikiak; kuleroak belaunetan, bozgorailuak topera eta zerbeza zaporezko muxuak tartean direla.<\/p>\n<p><strong>(In)definituak.<\/strong> Kontzienteki sortuak; osasuntsuak, gozagarriak, plazerezkoak. Etiketak jartzearen beldurrez, sailkatu ez ditudanak. Harremanen eskemetatik kanpora sortu ditudanak: familia bihurtu ditudan lagunak, lagun bihurtu ditudan familiakoak, mundua erakutsi eta ezkutatu dizkidaten ezagunak, sexu-lagun-afektibo-inoizerromantikoak\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Noski, ez dira euren artean independenteak, posible baita pertsona berarekin harreman mota bat baino gehiago sortzea. Dena den, harremanak eraikitzea bezain garrantzitsua da deseraikitzen jakitea. Kuriosoa baita ikustea nola irauten duten harremanek etengabeko resaka afektibo-sozialarekin.<\/p>\n<p>Paradoxikoa suerta daiteke nire harremanak nire ajearekin konparatzea, baina finean oso antzekoak dira: momentu gozagarriek sortuak dira, buruko minak ematen dizkidate, eta maiz, etorri bezala joaten dira.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ariketa bat proposatzen dizuet. Erreparatu sortu dituzuen harremanei; sozialei, afektiboei, sexualei. Ikusi nola eraiki dituzuen eta nola eraikitzen dituzten zuen inguruan. Guztietatik, zenbat dira nahita eraikitakoak eta zenbat inertziaz sortuak? eta inertziaz mantenduak?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":75,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[11,67,112,115],"class_list":["post-594","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gaztekeriak","tag-afektiboa","tag-harremanak","tag-sexuala","tag-soziala"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Resaka afektibo-sozialak - Gaztekeriak<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/blogak.argia.eus\/malen-aldalur\/2015\/09\/04\/resaka-afektibo-sozialarek\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Resaka afektibo-sozialak - Gaztekeriak\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Ariketa bat proposatzen dizuet. 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