{"id":1758,"date":"2015-01-26T06:00:09","date_gmt":"2015-01-26T05:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.argia.eus\/blogak\/mikel-garcia\/?p=1758"},"modified":"2015-01-26T06:00:09","modified_gmt":"2015-01-26T05:00:09","slug":"ez-naiz-nire-alabaren-agenda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogak.argia.eus\/mikel-garcia\/2015\/01\/26\/ez-naiz-nire-alabaren-agenda\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cEz naiz nire alabaren agenda\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

Seme-alabari ahaztu egin zaizkiola eskolan bidali dizkioten etxerako lanak? Zehazki zein ariketa egin behar den ez duela apuntatu? Arazoa konpontzeko whatsapp taldea erabiltzen du ama talde batek: gainerako amei galdetu, eta ariketei buruzko informazioa eta argazkiak elkarbanatzen dituzte. Ametako batek ordea, Noelia L\u00f3pez-Chedak, planto egitea erabaki du.<\/p>\n

\"Haur<\/a>

Haur babestuegiek arazoak izan ditzakete autonomia garatzeko (Irudia: Garbine Ubeda)<\/p><\/div>\n

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Alabaren agenda izateari uko egin diola kontatu du blogean<\/a>, eta zeresana eman du idatziak. Zentzuzko argudioak eman ditu eta adierazi du seme-alaben agenda izateak besteak beste zera dakarrela:<\/p>\n

*<\/strong> Ardurarik hartzen ez duten haurrak.<\/p>\n

*<\/strong>\u00a0Edozer gauza egitearen beldur diren haurrak, gure begiak gainean dituztelako huts egiten ote duten kontrolatzen, euren zeregina dena guk hobeto egingo diegula pentsatuta.<\/p>\n

*<\/strong>\u00a0Beste gauza batzuetan arreta jartzea nahiago duten haurrak, zeren gauza hauetarako \u201camatxo dago\u201d.<\/p>\n

*<\/strong>\u00a0Helduagoak direnean, edozer egiten hasteko argibideak eta aginduak esperoko dituzten haurrak.<\/p>\n

Ezezkorik jasotzen ez duten haurrak<\/strong><\/p>\n

Umeei euren autonomia garatzen uztea zeinen garrantzitsua den jorratu genuen Haur babestuegiak: Seme-alaben esanetara<\/em><\/a> erreportajean. Bertan, I\u00f1igo Ochoa de Alda terapeutak adierazi zigun guraso batzuek gaizki daramatela haurraren samina, umeak angustiarekin bizi duela ulertzen dutelako, eta ez ikasketa prozesu moduan, \u201cbaina haurrari ez badiozu uzten sufritzen eta frustrazioa sentitzen, ez diozu uzten bere kabuz ikas dezan egoera ezkorrei aurre egiten\u201d.<\/p>\n

Bestalde, zioen, \u201cgurasook etengabe jartzen dugu zalantzan nahikoa ote den egiten duguna, lehen lasaiago hartzen zituzten gauzak, baina gaur egun gure buruari asko exijitzen diogu eta horrek batzuetan ez digu uzten ikusten umeari den-dena ematea ez dela guraso ona izatea\u201d.<\/p>\n

Haurrak gehiegi babestea ondorioak izan ditzakeela ohartarazi zuen Ochoa de Aldak, hala nola haurrak ez bereiztea zer dagoen ondo eta zer gaizki, egoera ezkorrei aurre egiten ez ikastea, harreman sozialetarako baliabiderik ez garatzea, ezezko bat jasotzen ez jakitea eta frustraziorako gaitasunik ez izatea, heldutasunaren eta autonomiaren bidea ez jorratzea, sormena eta iniziatiba ez bultzatzea, joera beldurti, lotsati, ahul eta zalantzatiak sortzea\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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Ametako batek ordea, Noelia L\u00f3pez-Chedak, planto egitea erabaki du.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"tags":[487],"class_list":["post-1758","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-hezkuntza","tag-guraso"],"yoast_head":"\n\u201cEz naiz nire alabaren agenda\u201d - Jendartean<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/blogak.argia.eus\/mikel-garcia\/2015\/01\/26\/ez-naiz-nire-alabaren-agenda\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"\u201cEz naiz nire alabaren agenda\u201d - Jendartean\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Seme-alabari ahaztu egin zaizkiola eskolan bidali dizkioten etxerako lanak? 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