{"id":3407,"date":"2018-01-29T08:15:28","date_gmt":"2018-01-29T07:15:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.argia.eus\/blogak\/mikel-garcia\/?p=3407"},"modified":"2018-01-29T08:15:28","modified_gmt":"2018-01-29T07:15:28","slug":"gai-hori-nire-emazteak-darama","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogak.argia.eus\/mikel-garcia\/2018\/01\/29\/gai-hori-nire-emazteak-darama\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Gai hori nire emazteak darama&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cBadakizue zerk apurtzen didan bihotza? \u2013aitortu du irakasle batek\u2013 Ikasle baten gurasoekin gauza inportante bati buruz hitz egiteko etxeren batera deitu, telefonoa aitak hartu eta erantzuten didanean, \u2018gai hori nire emazteak darama\u2019. Zein gairi buruz ari zara? Zure seme-alabaren hezkuntzaz? Bere bizitzaz? Eta sarri gertatu zaidan zerbait da\u201d.<a href=\"https:\/\/blogak.argia.eus\/mikel-garcia\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2018\/01\/amak.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3408\" src=\"https:\/\/blogak.argia.eus\/mikel-garcia\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/23\/2018\/01\/amak.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"305\" \/><\/a><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\u201c2018, eta oraindik badirudi seme-alaben zaintza emakumearen esklusibitatea dela. 2018, eta oraindik irudi hau: \u2018Aitatxori ez gogaitu kontu horiekin, lanetik nekatuta dator-eta\u2019. Eta azkenean, eginbeharren segmentazio horrek rol tradizionalak betikotzen jarraitzen du: besteen bizitzei emana bizi den ama sakrifikatua, azkenerako gehiegi babesten duen ama astun moduan geratzen dena; eta \u2018ez dagoen\u2019 aita hori, zakarra, komunikagaitza familiako gainerako kideekin eta zaintzari lotuta funtzio mugatua daukana: larrialdi egoeretan (nota txarrak, <em>marroiak<\/em>, borrokak, eskola-kanporatzeak) autoritatez jokatzea, maiz modu errepresibo eta batzuetan biolentoan. Notak jasotzeko egunean, zein ikasgelara joan behar duten ere ez dakiten gizonez beteta egon ohi dira ikastetxeko pasilloak\u201d, idatzi du <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/JuanitoLibritos\/status\/955855369351368705\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@JuanitoLibritos<\/a> irakasleak sare sozialetan.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cAita batzuek eskola lehen aldiz zapaldu dute seme-alaba ikaskidearekin borrokatu denean\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Erantzun andana jaso ditu iruzkinak, gehienbat errealitate horrekin identifikatuta sentitu diren irakasle eta amenak. \u201cKuriosoa da \u2013dio emakumezko irakasle batek\u2013, aita batzuek eskola lehen aldiz zapaldu dute euren seme-alabek erasoren batekin lotutako arazoren bat izan dutenean, ikaskideren batekin borrokatu direnean. Orduan agertzen da aita\/alfa-matxoa, hori bai badelako bere betebeharra, bera da autoritatea\u201d; edo beste batek: \u201c36 ikasleren kontakturako telefono nagusia, amaren 35 mugikor eta zerrendan ageri den aita bakarra gizon alargundua da\u201d. \u201cNire kasuan \u2013dio ama batek\u2013, bikotekidea eta biok berdin inplikatzen gara. Amorrua ematen didana da jendeak esatea zorte handia dudala horregatik, senarrak mesedea egingo balit bezala! Hari ez dio inork esaten zortea duela nik berdina egiten dudalako\u2026 Jakina, nire \u2018zeregina\u2019 delako, ezta?\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cBadakizue zerk apurtzen didan bihotza? \u2013aitortu du irakasle batek\u2013 Ikasle baten gurasoekin gauza inportante bati buruz hitz egiteko etxeren batera deitu, telefonoa aitak hartu eta erantzuten didanean, \u2018gai hori nire emazteak darama\u2019. Zein gairi buruz ari zara? Zure seme-alabaren hezkuntzaz? Bere bizitzaz? 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